Monday, February 14, 2011

Happy Valentine's Day, aka My Big Fat Gay Engagement

I had a lovely Valentine's Day/Weekend despite the fact that Soren has been puking since yesterday. We spent Saturday night at the Horseshoe casino in Council Bluffs for Colby's work holiday party. We didn't win anything, but Colby got me a beautiful necklace that's two sparrows with a nest holding four eggs. Unfortunately, I think my allergy to gold may impact my ability to wear it. I already have a rash on my neck.

Tonight was bowling night. Not only did I bowl three really kick-ass games, but I also got to see something entirely too sweet: Pookie proposed to Smitty!! I only know bowling names, folks. Pookie and Smitty are two members of the all-gay bowling team that plays in our league. The manager of the bowling alley went around to all the teams and told them that the proposal was happening, just in case anyone would be offended. I didn't hear one person complain, and almost everyone clapped and congratulated the happy couple. Engagements are always sweet, but the bitterness that these men cannot actually get married here in Nebraska is powerful. In any case, I wish Pookie and Smitty all the joy in the world and the best games of bowling they can get.

I know lots of folks hate Valentine's Day and think it's totally commercialized. Remember this, the sweetest things in life should always be celebrated. And what's sweeter than love? Whether that love is for your children, your parents, your friends, your spouse, or your partner - celebrate, acknowledge, and share it today and every day.

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